Getting married is one of life’s most joyous milestones. It’s a time of celebration, excitement, and planning a shared future. Amidst the whirlwind of choosing a venue, sending invitations, and planning the honeymoon, there's another crucial conversation that every forward-thinking couple should have: financial protection.
While it may not be the most romantic topic, reviewing or purchasing life insurance after marriage is one of the most profound ways to say "I love you and I will protect you." It’s a foundational step in building a secure future together, ensuring that the promises you make at the altar are backed by a robust financial safety net.
This guide will walk you through everything you need to know about life insurance for married couples in the UK. We'll explore why marriage is the perfect trigger for this conversation, what types of cover are available, and how to ensure you and your partner are comprehensively protected, no matter what life throws your way.
Why Many Couples Review or Buy New Life Insurance After Getting Married
Tying the knot is more than just a romantic commitment; it’s a financial partnership. Your lives, assets, and liabilities become intertwined. This fundamental shift is why so many couples wisely choose this moment to put financial protection in place.
Here are the key reasons why getting married is the ideal time to think about life insurance:
- Shared Financial Commitments: Suddenly, you’re not just responsible for yourself. You may have a joint mortgage or tenancy agreement, shared utility bills, and joint loans. If one of you were to pass away, the surviving partner would become solely responsible for these debts. According to UK Finance, the average outstanding mortgage for a first-time buyer in the UK stood at over £200,000 in late 2024. A life insurance payout can ensure this burden is lifted.
- Protecting Your Partner's Lifestyle: Your combined income supports a certain standard of living. The loss of one income could be devastating, forcing the surviving partner to make drastic changes, such as selling the family home or taking on extra work while grieving. Life insurance can replace that lost income, providing stability during an incredibly difficult time.
- Future Family Plans: Marriage is often the precursor to starting a family. The cost of raising a child to the age of 18 in the UK is estimated to be over £200,000. Life insurance ensures that if a parent dies, funds are available for childcare, education, and all the other costs associated with raising a family.
- A New Legal Status: Marriage grants your spouse specific legal rights, including inheritance rights. However, without a will and proper financial planning, the process can be slow and complex. A life insurance policy, especially one written in trust, can provide your partner with fast access to funds, bypassing the often lengthy probate process.
- It's an Act of Love: Ultimately, buying life insurance is a selfless act. It’s about ensuring the person you love most in the world is cared for financially if you’re no longer there to do it yourself. It provides peace of mind for both of you, allowing you to focus on enjoying your life together.
Understanding the Basics: What is Life Insurance?
Before diving into the specifics for couples, let's quickly cover the fundamentals. In its simplest form, life insurance is a contract between you and an insurance company.
You agree to pay a regular amount, called a premium, and in return, the insurer promises to pay out a pre-agreed sum of money, known as the sum assured, if you pass away during the policy's term (its duration).
The payout goes to your chosen beneficiary, who for a married couple is typically the surviving spouse. This money is almost always paid as a tax-free lump sum and can be used for any purpose – to pay off a mortgage, cover funeral costs, or provide an income for the family.
Types of Life Insurance Policies for Married Couples
When you take out life insurance as a couple, you have two main options: two separate Single Life policies or one Joint Life policy. Understanding the difference is critical to making the right choice for your new family.
Joint Life Insurance
A joint life insurance policy covers two people under a single plan. It's usually arranged on a 'first-death' basis.
- How it works: The policy pays out the sum assured when the first of the two individuals passes away. After this single payout, the policy ends, and the surviving partner is left without any further life insurance cover from that plan.
- Pros:
- Cost-Effective: Often slightly cheaper than buying two separate single policies.
- Simpler: One application, one premium, and less paperwork.
- Cons:
- Single Payout: It only pays out once. This could leave the surviving partner needing to find new cover at an older age, when premiums are higher.
- Complications on Separation: If you were to divorce, it can be difficult to split a joint policy. Often, the policy must be cancelled, leaving both individuals to seek new cover.
Two Single Life Policies
This option involves each partner taking out their own individual life insurance policy.
- How it works: You each have a policy that pays out upon your own death. You would typically name each other as the beneficiary. If one partner dies, their policy pays out, and the surviving partner's policy remains active.
- Pros:
- Double Payout: The policies can pay out twice – once on each partner's death. This means the surviving partner's policy can be left to children or another beneficiary.
- Flexibility: The policies are entirely independent. If you separate, you simply keep your own policy. You can also leave your policy to different beneficiaries if, for example, you have children from a previous relationship.
- Cons:
- Cost: The combined cost of two single policies can sometimes be slightly higher than one joint policy, although the difference is often minimal.
Comparison: Joint Life vs. Two Single Policies
To help you decide, here’s a clear comparison:
| Feature | Joint Life Policy (First-Death) | Two Single Life Policies |
|---|
| Payout | Pays out once, on the first death. | Can pay out twice, on each partner's death. |
| Coverage After Claim | The policy ends, leaving the survivor without cover. | The surviving partner's policy continues. |
| Cost | Usually cheaper. | Combined premiums may be slightly higher. |
| Flexibility in Divorce | Can be complex to manage; often needs to be cancelled. | Each partner keeps their own policy. Simple. |
| Beneficiaries | The lump sum goes to the surviving partner. | Each partner can name their chosen beneficiary. |
| Best For | Couples on a tight budget whose primary goal is to clear a joint debt like a mortgage. | Most couples, especially those planning a family, as it offers far greater flexibility and comprehensive protection. |
Our View: While a joint policy can seem appealing due to the lower initial cost, at WeCovr, we find that the vast majority of couples benefit more from the flexibility and superior long-term protection offered by two single policies. The small extra cost is often a price worth paying for double the potential payout and none of the complications should your circumstances change.
Level Term vs. Decreasing Term: Which is Right for Us?
Once you've decided between joint and single policies, the next choice is the type of cover. The two most common options for couples are Level Term and Decreasing Term assurance.
Level Term Assurance
With a level term policy, the sum assured remains the same throughout the policy's term. Whether you pass away in year one or year 25, your beneficiaries receive the same fixed lump sum.
- Best for:
- Providing for family living costs: It ensures your family receives a set amount to replace your income.
- Covering an interest-only mortgage: The capital debt on this type of mortgage doesn't decrease.
- Leaving a financial gift for your children or covering potential Inheritance Tax.
Example: Sarah and Tom, both 30, want to ensure the surviving partner would receive £250,000 to live on. They take out two single level term policies for £250,000 each over a 30-year term. If Tom were to pass away in 15 years, Sarah would receive £250,000. Her own policy for £250,000 would remain in place.
Decreasing Term Assurance
Also known as mortgage protection insurance, this policy is designed specifically to cover a repayment mortgage. The sum assured decreases over time, roughly in line with your outstanding mortgage balance.
- Best for:
- Covering a repayment mortgage: It's a cost-effective way to ensure your biggest debt is cleared.
- Important Note: This type of cover is only designed to clear the mortgage. It does not provide an additional lump sum for family living costs.
Example: The same couple, Sarah and Tom, take out a £300,000 repayment mortgage over 30 years. They take out a joint decreasing term policy. If one of them passes away after 10 years, when the mortgage has reduced to £220,000, the policy would pay out approximately £220,000 to clear the remaining debt.
A Smart Alternative: Family Income Benefit
There is a third option that is perfect for young families. Instead of paying a single lump sum, Family Income Benefit pays out a regular, tax-free income every month or year from the point of claim until the policy's end date.
This is an excellent and often more affordable way to replace a lost salary, making it easier for the surviving partner to budget and manage day-to-day finances.
Beyond Life Insurance: Protecting Your Livelihood Together
Death is not the only event that can derail a couple's financial future. A serious illness or long-term injury can be just as devastating, if not more so, due to the dual impact of lost income and increased costs. That's why a comprehensive protection plan for a married couple should also include Critical Illness Cover and Income Protection.
Critical Illness Cover (CIC)
This cover pays out a tax-free lump sum if you are diagnosed with one of a list of specific, serious medical conditions defined by the insurer. Common conditions include many types of cancer, heart attack, and stroke.
- Why it's vital: Statistics from Cancer Research UK show that 1 in 2 people in the UK will be diagnosed with cancer in their lifetime. A critical illness diagnosis can stop you from working for months or even years.
- How the payout can be used:
- Pay off the mortgage or other debts.
- Cover private medical treatment or specialist care.
- Adapt your home (e.g., install a ramp or stairlift).
- Allow your partner to take time off work to care for you.
- Replace lost income during your recovery.
Critical Illness Cover is often combined with life insurance (Life and Critical Illness Cover), where the policy pays out on either diagnosis of a critical illness or on death, whichever comes first.
Income Protection (IP)
Often described by financial experts as the bedrock of any protection plan, Income Protection is designed to do one thing: replace a portion of your income if you are unable to work due to any illness or injury.
Unlike Critical Illness Cover, which pays a lump sum for a specific condition, Income Protection pays a regular monthly benefit and can cover almost any medical reason for being off work, including stress or a bad back.
- Key Features:
- Deferred Period: This is the waiting period before the policy starts paying out. It can be anything from one day to 12 months. You should align this with any sick pay you receive from your employer.
- Payout Period: The policy can pay out for a set period (e.g., 2 or 5 years) or right up until you return to work or reach retirement age. Long-term cover is always recommended.
- Definition of Incapacity: The best policies use an 'Own Occupation' definition, meaning the policy will pay out if you are unable to do your specific job.
For a married couple, both partners should consider Income Protection. Even if one partner earns significantly less or works part-time, the loss of their income and the contribution they make to the household would still have a major financial impact.
Special Considerations for Modern Couples
Your new life together may come with specific circumstances that require tailored financial planning.
For Business Owners, Directors, and the Self-Employed
If you or your spouse run a business or are self-employed, your financial planning needs are more complex.
- Self-Employed & Freelancers: You have no employer sick pay to fall back on, making Income Protection absolutely non-negotiable. It's your financial lifeline if you can't work.
- Company Directors: You can arrange certain policies in a highly tax-efficient way through your limited company.
- Executive Income Protection: The company pays the premiums, and they are typically treated as a business expense. This is more tax-efficient than paying for a personal policy from your post-tax income.
- Relevant Life Cover: A death-in-service policy for directors, paid for by the business. The premiums are an allowable business expense, and the benefits are paid tax-free to the family via a trust.
- Key Person Insurance: If one of you is integral to the business's success, this policy pays a lump sum to the business if that 'key person' dies or becomes critically ill. The funds can be used to recruit a replacement or cover lost profits.
Inheritance Tax (IHT) and Writing Your Policy in Trust
This is one of the most important yet often overlooked aspects of life insurance planning. When you get married, assets can pass between you and your spouse free of Inheritance Tax (IHT). However, when the second partner passes away, your joint estate could be liable for a 40% tax bill on anything over the available thresholds.
A life insurance payout, if not properly structured, will be added to your estate, potentially increasing the IHT liability.
The solution is simple and, in most cases, free: write your life insurance policy in trust.
- What is a Trust? A trust is a simple legal arrangement that separates the ownership of the policy from the payout. The policy is held by trustees (who you appoint) for the benefit of your beneficiaries (your spouse and/or children).
- The Three Key Benefits of a Trust:
- Avoids IHT: The payout from a policy in trust is not part of your estate and therefore not liable for Inheritance Tax.
- Avoids Probate: The money is paid directly to the beneficiaries by the trustees, bypassing the often slow and costly legal process of probate. This means your family gets the money in weeks, not months or even years.
- Gives You Control: You determine exactly who benefits and who manages the money.
Setting up a trust is straightforward, and insurers provide the forms. A specialist broker like WeCovr can guide you through this simple but vital step.
Blended Families
If you or your partner have children from previous relationships, financial planning requires careful thought. Two single life policies written in trust are almost always the best solution. This allows each partner to specify exactly who they want their policy payout to go to, ensuring their children are protected financially.
How Much Cover Do We Actually Need?
This is the big question. There's no single right answer, but you can get a good estimate by considering your liabilities and your family's future needs. A common method is the D.I.E. acronym: Debts, Income, Extra costs.
- Debts: Add up all your joint debts that you would want cleared.
- Mortgage (the outstanding balance).
- Personal loans.
- Car finance.
- Credit card balances.
- Income: How much income would the surviving partner need to maintain their lifestyle?
- A common rule of thumb is to seek a lump sum of 10 times the annual gross salary of the person being insured.
- Alternatively, use a Family Income Benefit policy to provide a direct monthly replacement income.
- Extra Costs:
- Funeral Expenses: The average cost of a basic funeral in the UK is around £4,000, but the total cost of dying (including professional fees) can be closer to £9,000.
- Future Childcare & Education: If you have or plan to have children, factor in these significant costs.
Example Calculation:
| Expense Category | Your Estimate (£) | Notes |
|---|
| Debts | | |
| Mortgage Balance | £250,000 | Check your latest statement |
| Car Loan | £10,000 | |
| Income Replacement | | |
| Annual Income to Replace | £35,000 | |
| Years Needed | 15 years | Until children are independent |
| Lump Sum Needed | £525,000 | (This is where an adviser can help calculate the true figure) |
| Final Costs | | |
| Funeral & Other Fees | £10,000 | A safe estimate |
| Total Indicative Cover | £795,000 | |
This calculation looks daunting, but an adviser can help you prioritise and find a level of cover that is both adequate and affordable.
The Application Process: Honesty is the Best Policy
Applying for life insurance involves answering detailed questions about your health and lifestyle. It's absolutely crucial that you are completely honest and accurate.
You'll be asked about:
- Age, height, and weight (to calculate your BMI).
- Smoker/vaper status (vaping is usually classed as smoking).
- Alcohol consumption.
- Personal medical history.
- Your family's medical history.
- Your occupation and any hazardous hobbies.
For larger sums assured or if you declare a medical condition, the insurer may request a report from your GP or ask you to attend a medical screening. Lying or omitting information can lead to your policy being declared void, meaning your family would receive nothing when they need it most.
Health & Wellness: A Partnership for Life (and Lower Premiums)
Insurers love healthy clients, and they reward them with lower premiums. Getting married is a great opportunity to support each other in building a healthier lifestyle.
- Quit Smoking: This is the single most effective way to lower your premiums. A non-smoker can pay less than half the premium of a smoker for the same cover.
- Maintain a Healthy Weight: A healthy BMI (between 18.5 and 25) will secure you the best rates. Insurers add 'loadings' (extra charges) for higher BMIs.
- Reduce Alcohol Intake: Keeping your consumption within the recommended NHS guidelines (no more than 14 units a week) will help keep premiums down.
As a WeCovr customer, we want to support you on this journey. That's why we provide complimentary access to our AI-powered calorie tracking app, CalorieHero. It’s a fantastic tool to help you and your partner manage your nutrition, support each other's goals, and build healthy habits that can lead to a longer life and lower insurance costs.
How WeCovr Can Help You Protect Your New Future
Getting married is an exciting new chapter, but we know that navigating the complexities of life insurance can feel overwhelming. That’s where an expert, independent broker can make all the difference.
At WeCovr, we specialise in helping couples and families find the right protection.
- We're Independent: We compare policies and prices from all the major UK insurers to find the most suitable and competitive options for you.
- We're Experts: We understand the nuances of joint vs. single policies, the importance of trusts, and the specific needs of business owners or those with health conditions.
- We're Here for You: We provide friendly, no-obligation advice tailored to your new life together. We'll help you calculate your needs, complete the application forms accurately, and get the vital trust paperwork sorted.
Our goal is to give you and your new spouse complete peace of mind, knowing your shared future is protected. Let us handle the complexities of financial protection so you can focus on what really matters: building a long and happy life together.
We're not married but live together. Do we still need life insurance?
Absolutely. In many ways, life insurance is even more critical for cohabiting couples. Unmarried partners do not have the same automatic inheritance rights as married couples. Without life insurance and a will, your surviving partner may not be entitled to your share of the property or other assets, potentially leading to immense financial and legal difficulties. A life insurance policy ensures they are financially protected.
Can we get life insurance if one of us has a pre-existing medical condition?
Yes, in most cases, it is still possible to get life insurance with a pre-existing medical condition. You must declare the condition fully on your application. The insurer will assess the information, and the outcome could be that you are offered cover at standard rates, cover with an increased premium (a 'loading'), cover with an exclusion for that specific condition, or in rare, severe cases, your application may be declined. An expert broker like WeCovr can be invaluable here, as we know which insurers are more favourable for specific conditions.
What happens to our joint life insurance if we get divorced?
This is a significant drawback of joint life policies. If you divorce, you have a few options, none of which are ideal. You could continue paying for the policy together, but this is rare. One partner could take over the policy, but both would have to agree on who becomes the sole owner. Most commonly, the policy is simply cancelled. This leaves both individuals needing to find new cover at an older age, when it is more expensive and they may have developed health conditions. This is a primary reason why two single policies are often recommended.
Is a life insurance payout taxable in the UK?
The payout from a life insurance policy is paid free from income tax and capital gains tax. However, if the policy is not written in trust, the payout sum will be added to the deceased's legal estate. If the total value of the estate exceeds the Inheritance Tax (IHT) threshold, the payout could be subject to a 40% tax charge. Writing the policy in trust avoids this entirely.
I have life insurance through my employer. Is that enough?
'Death in service' benefit from an employer is an excellent perk, but it should be seen as a bonus, not your core protection. These policies typically pay out a multiple of your salary (e.g., 2x or 4x), which is often not enough to clear a mortgage and provide for a family's long-term needs. Crucially, this cover ceases the moment you leave that job. A personal life insurance policy belongs to you, providing security and control regardless of your employment situation.